Be The Cause

Master The Internal, Celebrate The External.

Helping you transform your mindset to live your dream life.

We only get one shot at this and you know you’re not living life to the fullest.

Coaching For Your Goals

Confidence Coaching

You don’t need to become someone else — you just need to stop hiding who you are. This is where you let go of needing to be liked and start speaking with clarity, conviction, and unapologetic presence.

Peace Coaching

Beneath the noise, there’s a stillness that’s always been yours. In this work, we quiet the chaos — not by fixing the world, but by changing how you meet it. Grounded. Calm. Unshaken.

Fulfillment Coaching

You’ve chased, achieved, and still felt the emptiness. This is where we build a life that actually feels like yours — one rooted in meaning, wholeness, and the quiet knowing that you’re finally on the right path for you.

Meet Coach Graham

Graham Bauer is a Life Coach and founder of Be The Cause Coaching, with a mission to help high-potential men live life to the max. Driven by personal experience and deep conviction, he works with clients who appear successful on the outside but feel like they are missing something — men who crave true confidence, clarity, peace, and purpose. 

His approach is rooted in truth: that your reality is a mirror. Everything starts from within and you control far more than you even realize. Through deep listening, real accountability, and mental rewiring, he helps clients stop chasing external validation and start building a life where they truly feel in control.

Graham is a certified coach with a background in self-development, competitive performance, and mindset mastery. He holds a degree in Psychology from the University of Virginia with a minor in Leadership through the esteemed McIntire School of Commerce. A D.C. native, he now resides in New York City inspiring others to find their spark and wake up from the grayness most people live under. 

Success Stories

  • "I came in knowing something wasn’t clicking. On paper, things were fine — but I felt stuck. Not lost, just... disconnected. Working with Graham wasn’t about fixing me, it was about getting real. He didn’t tell me what to do — he helped me clear the mental clutter so I could actually hear myself again. For the first time in a long time, I know what I want, and I trust myself to go get it."

    Adam

  • "Confidence always felt performative for me, like I had to act like I had it together instead of actually feeling it. Working with Graham flipped that. It wasn’t about hyping myself up, it was about getting to the root of why I kept shrinking or second-guessing. Now I speak up, I take up space, and I don’t overthink everything I say or do. It feels solid — like it’s finally coming from the inside."

    Darius

  • "My mind was loud all the time. Overthinking, stressing, constantly on edge. I didn’t need another routine or hack — I needed to figure out why I couldn’t just be. Working with Graham helped me stop fighting myself. He didn’t give me generic advice — he asked the right questions and held me to real honesty. Now I feel calm in a way I didn’t know was possible. I’m not forcing peace — I actually have it."

    Vikram

  • "I came to Graham because I was tired of feeling like I was always on, always performing. I wanted to feel solid in who I was without needing to prove it. The way he coached — honest, no fluff, but never judgmental — helped me slow down, reset, and actually feel proud of how I’m showing up. It’s not just mindset shifts — it’s how I live now."

    Tim

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It’s time to start maximizing your life.

You have the answers already. I just help you get clear on what you actually want - and how to get there.

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If not now, when?